It's like when you get on a plane, they tell you if the oxygen masks come down, to put yours on first before taking care of the kids. I need to take care of my own needs, too. Otherwise, I'll be spinning out of control. That's not good for any one.
You come along and become a part of the family and we thought everything was going to be good forever. You made us think that! And it's not true; things got worse.